Sofia Toufa, a German musician who has worked with the likes of Deadmau5, Moguai and Savoy, announced this week that she and Tommy Lee are making it official.

The couple took to Twitter to share the news of the engagement, with Lee saying he’d finally found “the one”. The Motley Crue drummer has been married three times before, to Elaine Starchuk, Heather Locklear, and Pamela Anderson. Anderson recently remarried herself, tying the knot with ex-husband (and Paris Hilton sex-tape star) Rick Salomon.

We’re very happy,” Anderson said recently of her new husband. “Our families are very happy and that’s all that matters.”

Lee and Toufa–whose stage name is SOFI–have been together since 2009 and have worked together on music projects in the past. She has also worked as a backup singer for Britney Spears and a choreographer for Avril Lavigne.

Lee’s good news comes at a turbulent time for him professionally, as Motley Crue recently announced they would be ending their 33-year relationship once their current tour–which will conclude in 2015–is done. The band even reportedly signed a contract stating they won’t appear together once the tour is over.

There comes a time in a mans life when you just know your partner is for LIFE!! Say hello to my fiancé and soon to be wife @SOFIofficial

— Tominos Pizza (@MrTommyLand) February 24, 2014

I'm something that rhymes with Beyonce!!!!!

— 'SOFI' (@SOFIofficial) February 24, 2014