Singer Keyshia Cole, 32, is showing little sympathy for her ex and estranged husband Daniel Gibson‘s claim that he was depressed after they broke up.

“As far as his depression is concerned, I think as a friend, he has to understand, as well, that things that bring you to that point of being depressed or losing something that matters to you more than anything, you can’t repeat the same thing that got you there in the first place,” Keyshia told the 106 & Park audience.

The NBA pro has claimed that life without his wife and son has led to a bout with depression.

“I’ve learned through the depression I went through after losing Keyshia and I felt like [I lost] my son too in the sense that I couldn’t be with him every day. That whole thing took me into a deep depression, and in that depression I kind of found out a lot of things about myself,” he told Necole Bitchie for her website necolebitchie.com.

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The 28-year-old Cleveland Cavaliers player tried desperately to work things out with Cole after cheating on her and wanted to make their marriage work. However, Cole says she was and is done with the whole thing.

“As a friend that would be something that I would have to express to him. You gotta just grow up,” she said.

Cole advised her ex via the interview to learn from his mistakes and deal with the consequences of his actions.

Isn’t this the pot calling the kettle black?

What about the consequences of her arrest for assaulting a woman at her alleged boyfriend Birdman‘s party last month?

Police say the singer wigged out and attacked the woman “leaving scratches all over her face.” She was charged with misdemeanor battery.

“I really do appreciate my fans rolling with me over the last 10 years, but I’ve learned that some things you just have to keep to yourself,” she has said of the incident.